If you’ve noticed a loved one struggling with memory loss, finding the right time to talk to them about moving into memory care facilities can be hard. It’s important that they know they have options and that you’re there for them no matter what they decide. In this article, we’ll cover some tips on how to help your loved ones realize they need memory care facilities without hurting their pride or making them feel like less of a person.
Respect Their Independence
If you’re a caregiver and your loved one is suffering from memory loss, it can be difficult to watch them struggle with simple tasks. They may forget where they put their keys or left the car. It’s important to remember that this is not about you; it’s about helping your loved one stay safe and healthy.
One way to do this is by respecting their independence as much as possible. Your loved one might have trouble remembering how much time has passed since they last ate or drank water, so don’t force food on them if they say they’re not hungry yet-wait until later in the day when hunger strikes again (or bring along some healthy snacks). If someone needs help getting into bed at night because of arthritis pain in their joints, offer assistance but don’t push too hard-they might just need some extra pillows under their knees instead of assistance getting into bed altogether!
Talk About The Benefits Of Moving Into A Memory Care Community
You can also talk to your loved one about the benefits of living in a memory care community. Memory care communities are specifically designed to meet the needs of people with dementia and other cognitive impairment, offering many benefits over other options. Sometimes, it is also easier for family members or friends to visit their loved ones in these communities because they are located near where they live and work.
Focus On The Abilities They Have, Not The Ones They’ve Lost
It’s important to avoid getting caught up in this. Instead, focus on what they still have and how much they can do independently. This can help them see that while there are things they’ve lost or forgotten, many abilities (and skills) remain intact.
For example: “You may not remember how to cook anymore, but you still know how to turn a faucet on and off.” Or “you’ve forgotten most of our family members’ names, but it’s still possible for us to have enjoyable conversations together.”
Another strategy is to recognize their strengths instead of focusing on their weaknesses by asking questions like “What was your favorite thing about working at this job?” or “What was your favorite hobby before dementia took over?”
Reassure Them That You Will Always Be There For Them
You can help your loved one understand that you will always be there for them by reassuring them that you love them and will always visit them even if they move to another state. You should emphasize how much fun it will be for both of you when you visit and spend time together in the memory care community.
Don’t Make A Big Deal Out Of Caring For Them At Home
It’s essential to recognize that the person you love is still the same person they were before their memory began to fade, and they should be treated with the same respect and dignity as anyone else. If possible, try not to make them feel guilty about needing help with daily tasks or feeling like they are slowing you down (even if this is true).
